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I’m married to the most loving, giving, and understanding man I’ve ever met. I love him dearly; however, I'm not in love with him. I don’t feel physical attraction or passion toward him. I'm not proud to say I was in a sexual relationship before my husband and I met. While that relationship was physically satisfying, he wasn’t a practicing Christian and not committed to me. Now I find myself fantasizing about my previous relationship. I don’t want to destroy my family, but I long for the desires described in Song of Songs.
One of the many unfortunate consequences of being sexually active before marriage is that the abnormal and transient high we get from Eros love can become the standard for everything that follows. It’s like enjoying the feeling that comes going down the first big dip of a roller coaster and then spending the rest of your life searching for the same feeling. A roller coaster can be fun to ride on but not much fun to live on.
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